How to Establish a Positive Parent-Teacher Relationship


During this back-to-school season, one of the most important things you can do is establish a positive parent-teacher relationship. Not only will it be comforting to know who your child is spending time with it will also set your child up for a successful year.

As a mom and teacher, I’ve been in both positions. Here are some quick and easy ways to make a connection with your child’s teacher. Thanks to La Petite Academy® for sponsoring this post. 

back to schoolAttend Back to School Events

Make it a priority to attend any Open House or Meet the Teacher opportunities. It is always nice to be able to put a name and a face together so make sure you introduce yourself and chat for a bit.  

Reach out within the First Few Weeks of School

Consider sending an email about a positive experience your child had, something memorable or funny they’ve said about their school day or thanking the teacher for working with your child. Not only will this make the teacher’s day, but it will also set you apart from other parents and help to establish rapport early on.

Offer to Help

Perhaps you have an interest in helping the teacher out in the classroom. This is a nice way for you to get an inside glimpse into the classroom routine and get to know your child’s classmates. The teacher will appreciate anything you do to help and this will give the teacher more time to focus their time and attention to their true area of expertise.

If you aren’t able to come into the classroom, there are lots of things you can do at home. For some ideas, check out this link helping the teacher when you can’t come into the classroom.

Give a compliment

We all know how flattering it feels to be praised. Is there something hanging in the room that caught your eye or something impressive that your child has learned? If so, make sure to mention it the next time you see them or send an email. If they really go above and beyond let the principal know too.

Stay in the Know

Read teacher and school newsletters, information posted in your child’s digital portfolio, report cards, updates on the class website or social media pages, and SCOUR their backpack frequently to uncover any crumbled (and probably important) tidbits of information. 

Sometimes I wonder if newsletters, pictures and Facebook updates I send reach the parents. Commenting on something you read or saw not only shows the teacher that you read it but also shows you care. I can tell you first hand the more feedback I get the more time I will spend keeping parents informed.

Talk Positively About the Teacher

If there’s ever a reason that you are upset with your child’s teacher or disagree with them, it’s a great idea to reach out to the teacher first for clarification. Often children come home with incorrect information or misunderstood something, so when in doubt, ask the teacher directly to talk through the issue.

Remember that your child is listening and hearing what you say so make every effort to refrain from talking negatively about their teacher or other school personnel in front of your child, especially because there is a good chance they might repeat it to others.

Bonus: Give a small token of appreciation

Although not necessary, I am always pleasantly surprised and grateful when students present me with something that shows they were thinking of me. It can be handmade or brought in from home such as a card, tomato or flower grown from the garden or something small purchased like Post-it notes for the classroom. Snag this free colorful teacher gift tag that you can attach to many items. 

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For more parenting tips and insight into early education from the experts at La Petite Academy, be sure to check out their Learning Together Blog.

School starts in just a few weeks and I’m excited to get to know a whole new group of students and their families. I really do cherish the relationships that are formed each year. I plan on following these tips to establish a positive parent-teacher relationship with my children’s teachers. 

Have a wonderful start to the school year and sure to stop by and say hello to your teacher from last year, because I know firsthand that they love seeing familiar faces! 

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Amy Onifer
Amy is an "on the go momma" to two spunky and fun loving kids (ages 9 & 8). She came to Columbus to pursue a career in elementary education and decided this was home. She’s an avid traveler, yet can’t master the art of packing. Her philosophy is bring it all because you don’t know if you’re going to need it. If you ever decide to take a trip with her, don’t worry about bringing a camera because she’ll take enough photos of the experience that it will likely crash your hard drive. Before kids, you could find everything neatly organized and straight vacuum lines in her carpet, but these days she's not bothered with worrying about the small stuff. You can catch her belting out her favorite song, “Girls Just Wanna Have Fun” and using her two left feet to bust a move with her family during their frequent impromptu dance parties. She loves living in such a family-friendly city!