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I’m a proud football mom, and I’ve been one for years now. My three boys play football—an 8th grader and a 6th grader in tackle, and a 4th grader in flag this year.
It’s funny to think about where I started. Growing up, I didn’t play sports, I wasn’t athletic, and I didn’t know the first thing about football. I couldn’t tell you a tight end from a linebacker, let alone explain what a “Hail Mary” was.
But here I am, years later, not just surviving but thriving in the world of football mom life.
Football has become more than just a sport in our household—it’s a way for me to connect with my boys.
We have a family fantasy football league, which is a mix of competitive banter and shared excitement. We watch games together. I’m even proud to say I’ve even learned how to throw a decent spiral after hours of backyard practice sessions. It’s in those moments, tossing the ball back and forth and taking interest in what interests them, that I feel the most connected to my sons. They’ve taught me about the game, and in return, I’ve watched them grow—not just as athletes, but as young men.
I’ll be honest—when my boys first started playing football, I was hesitant. But over time, those hesitations have been replaced by excitement. Football game days have become my favorite days.
We live in a community that really supports football. Friday nights are often spent by going to high school football games and Saturdays are for cheering on our favorite college team.
There’s something magical about the energy in the air, the camaraderie on the sidelines, and the pride that swells in my chest when I see my boys take the field. They’ve been challenged, pushed to their limits, and supported by coaches and teammates. I’ve seen them dig deep and realize they’re capable of more than they ever thought possible. And as a mom, there’s no greater joy than watching your children grow and succeed.
My thoughts are further expanded in this post; Building Character and Confidence: The Value of Football.
To read even more about how football brings people together and cultivates community, read the post; Football Brings Us Together.
But let’s be real—being a football mom isn’t all touchdowns and triumphs.
There’s a lot of preparation and organization that goes into making sure those game days run smoothly. So, let’s talk essentials. If you’re new to the game, here’s what you need to survive (and thrive) on the sidelines:
Sideline Survival Essentials
As any seasoned football mom will tell you, game days are an adventure—exciting, unpredictable, and sometimes downright exhausting. But with the right gear, you can turn chaos into comfort and be prepared for anything the day throws your way. Whether you’re a veteran on the sidelines or a rookie just stepping into this world, here’s a list of must-haves to ensure you’re ready for every kickoff, touchdown, and everything in between.
- Sunscreen and Sunglasses: In Columbus, football season starts in August when it’s hot and sunny. You’ll need all the protection while cheering on your team.
- Seating: Depending on your league, you may need to bring collapsible chairs, or you may want bleacher seats. But either way, you want something comfortable because you’ll be sitting in it for hours each week.
- Snacks: For you, for the kids, for everyone. Trust me, hungry kids and long games do not mix. Pack a variety of options—granola bars, fruit, nuts, beef jerky, crackers—so there’s something for every craving.
- Things for Younger Kids to Do: Balls, books, or anything that keeps them entertained while their siblings play the game. Keeping them busy means you can actually watch the game!
- Warm Clothes and Rain Gear: Going into November in Columbus, football doesn’t stop for the weather, so neither should you. Layers are your best friend, and remember a raincoat or umbrella. A Mambe is another excellent option as a waterproof, warm outer layer.
- First Aid Kit: I always keep one in my car with bandaids, ice packs, and antiseptic wipes for those inevitable bumps and bruises.
- A Good Stain Remover: Mud, grass, and who-knows-what-else—football is messy. A stain remover pen can be a lifesaver.
- Water for Every Family Member: Hydration is key, and our boys particularly like Gatorade water bottles because they squirt quickly and easily. Plus, you can share with others without putting their mouth on it. For the moms, I recommend a good Stanley or Owala, bonus points if it’s in your team colors!
- A Good Sports Bag: I love a good Bogg Bag—spacious, durable, and easy to clean. It’s perfect for hauling all your gear to and from the field.
- Team Colors Game Day Clothes: Show your team spirit by dressing in your team’s colors. Whether it’s a t-shirt, hoodie, or even a fun hat, it’s a great way to get into the game day mood.
- Fully Charged Cell Phone: You’re going to need to take pictures and videos of the game, and trust me, you’ll want to capture those moments. Make sure your phone is charged, and maybe bring a portable charger just in case.
Find a list of recommended youth and highschool football equipment through Future for Football’s provided resources for parents and students HERE.
Football Mom Etiquette
Being a good football mom isn’t just about showing up; it’s about showing up the right way:
- No Trash Talking: Respect other teams and players. We’re all here for the love of the game, and sportsmanship starts with us as parents. Our kids are watching us, let’s be good role models.
- Don’t Block Views: If you’re standing on the sidelines, be mindful of those sitting behind you. Everyone wants to see their child play, so ensure you’re not obstructing anyone’s view.
- No Sideline Coaching: You can cheer someone on or say “good job,” but don’t tell your kid what to do or give them instructions that could contradict what their coach told them. Trust that the coach knows what’s best and let them do their job.
- Be Early and Ready: Practice is important, and being on time shows respect for the team and coaches. Arriving early also gives your child time to warm up and mentally prepare for the game.
- Volunteer: Whether it’s for snack duty, laundry, or carpool, every bit of help makes a difference. Teams are built on the support of their community, and your involvement matters.
- Celebrate All the Players: Football is a team sport, and every player deserves encouragement. Whether they had a great game or a tough one, tell them “good game,” a little positivity goes a long way in building confidence.
Find more tips for parents of football kids through Future for Football’s resources HERE.
Being a football mom is a journey, one that’s filled with ups and downs, wins and losses, but also with moments that make it all worth it. It’s about more than just the game—it’s about the lessons learned, the bonds formed, and the memories made. So, if you’re new to this world, welcome. It’s a wild ride, but I promise you, there’s nothing quite like it. You’ll laugh, you’ll cry, you’ll cheer louder than you ever thought possible. And through it all, you’ll realize that being a football mom isn’t just a role—it’s an honor.
Want to explore football opportunities in your area?
The organization Future for Football, sponsored by the National Football Foundation, recognizes the sport’s capacity to shape well-rounded individuals who excel not only on the field but in all aspects of their lives. Using their League Finder, you can search by city and state to find the league that’s closest to you, whether it’s flag, tackle, or for adults or kids.
In addition to the league finder, Future for Football offers a variety of resources for parents and players, including youth and high school football rules and a list of recommended equipment.
Visit FutureForFootball.com to find a league near you.